The House at Sugar Beach #5

After Daddy left, everything began to change drastically. The country people were sick of being underneath the Congo people of which Helene and her family were a part of. Helene was unaware that anything was going until the government was officially overthrown, “A coup d’etat, I learned that day, was a French phrase meaning “overthrow of the government” or literally, “cutting off the head,” (Cooper 166). This foreshadows the bloodiness and violence that will soon transcend over the country.
Because there were mostly just women at the house at Sugar Beach after daddy left, they were much more vulnerable. Soldiers came, ransacked the house, and took mommee into the bedroom. They left and she came out saying, “Those damn soldiers gang-raped me” (Cooper 177). This was extremely traumatizing for her and the girls who were forced to stand by and watch it happen. They looked up to their mother for strength and seeing her get taken advantage of drained a lot of their courage. Nobody should have to go through that.

The House at Sugar Beach #4

A shocking turn in the story was when Helene’s parents got a divorce. For years her mother had been threatening that she would leave if her father didn’t stop sleeping around but in the end, he was the one that left. While they were on vacation in the United States, Mommee received a letter from her husband saying he wanted a divorce and everyone was shocked, especially Helene. “I had a lot of faith in my ability to talk mommee into coming back to daddy if she left him. Never, not once, had I thought it would be daddy who would leave. I hadn’t practiced talking him out of leaving,” (Cooper 130). Helene is so young and naive and didn’t deserve to go through that.
I normally think of divorce as an ugly American custom and it never even really occurred to me that it might be happening in Africa. This hit the Cooper family really hard and everyone was extremely distraught. There are so many wars and terrible things going on over there. It is tragic to think that even young children if Africa have to deal with it on top of all the other cultural struggles going on around them.

The House at Sugar Beach #3

Helene and her family still celebrate Christmas but theirs is so incredibly different than the Christmas we are accustomed to. When Helene and Eunice hear the drums that represent the arrival of Santa Claus, they jump out of their seats and run to greet him. The description of their him is nothing I would ever expect, “Santa Claus, on stilts and wearing a grass skirt, a wooden mask with eye holes, and long blond hair, loped into the yard, he was surrounded by three drummers,” (Cooper 108). Not quite the jolly, fat, candy cane colored man most people affiliate with this holiday. Even though the specifics are different the principles are actually relatively similar. All of the people there join in singing, “We-ah we-ah, Santa Claus we-ah, aye, We-ah we-ah, Santa Claus we-ah aye,” (Cooper 109). The song is different, but the custom of singing Christmas carols is the same.
Shortly after Christmas, Helene receives another exciting visit. Her father invites a few of his friends over for a drink and Helene makes it her mission for them to accept her. As they walk into the parlor she grabs her father’s Newsweek and pretends to be reading it. She lets the men talk for awhile then decides to make her official entrance into the conversation. She ends up confusing the subject and saying something completely foolish. The men laugh and laugh but she does not care one bit because he dad repeatedly says that’s my daughter! His approval is all she needs.

The House at Sugar Beach #2

The more I read into this book the more interesting it becomes. At first the idea of having her own room had drawn Helene to the Sugar Beach house but after moving in, she realized that maybe that wasn’t the best thing for her. The seclusion from society at Sugar Beach made their house very prone to being burglarized. Within the first few nights of them being there, many of their possessions were stolen including an ivory tusk and her mother’s favorite painting. On the fourth night as Helene lay in bed “heartmen” snuck into her room; “Heartmen are witch doctors who kidnap people and cut out their hearts while they’re still alive to make medicine” (Cooper 24). Luckily she was able to scare them off be screaming but after that incident her parents decided to get her a “live-in friend”. The girls name was Eunice and she was a Bassa girl. Bassas were another tribe that resided in Liberia and young Bassa children were often sent to live with Congo people in order to receive better care and a better education.
At first Eunice and Helene don’t hit it off very well. Eunice runs away three times before she finally becomes comfortable in the house. She begins to bond with Marlene, Helene’s younger sister, until she and Helene solve their differences. After they talk Helene moves into the room with Marlene and Eunice and they become very close. This is a turning point for Helene because she is learning how to interact and reach out to other people. Before Helene tried to act like she didn’t care at all and putting down that front is a big step.

The House at Sugar Beach

For my quarter three outside reading assignment I chose to read The House at Sugar Beach by Helene Cooper off of the New York Times “100 Notable Books of 2008”. The book is a memoir written about Helene’s childhood as a privileged member of the Congo society in Liberia. Her ancestors were some of the first freed slaves to come back to Africa from the US in the early 1800’s. This enables them to be a part of the upper class in Africa. When people think of Africa they often picture wild people in the bushes but her situation was very different. They had cars, three houses, a generous staff, expensive schooling, and much more.
The book starts with Helene and her family moving from their house in the city to their new custom built house on Sugar Beach. Just the upper level had, “five bedrooms and three bathrooms and a TV lounge and an indoor balcony that looked down onto the children’s toy room on the first floor” (Cooper 9). The first floor had two more bedrooms, three more bathrooms, a music room, recreations room, dining room, living room and more. This shows the wealth that Helene was surrounded by all throughout her childhood. Its really eye-opening to see the other side of Africa. I am so used to hearing of the wars and brutalities over there that this is refreshing.

A Million Little Pieces #6

The final test in, A Million Little Pieces, is when James Frey, a twenty three year old man walks into a bar with his brother, a friend, and forty dollars, to prove once and for all that he can stop being the addict and alcoholic he has been categorized as for so many years. He orders a tall glass of whisky and sits at the counter alone, smelling, looking touching, the alcohol but not drinking it. The final moment is when James creeps his head up towards the mirror and finally looks himself in the eye which is something he has been struggling to do for the entire book;

For the first time in my life, as I look into my own eyes, I like what I see. I can live with it. I want to live with it. For a long time. I want to live with it. I want to live” (429).

James has come such a long way in the short span of his book but he has finally begun to shape himself into the kind of man he wants to be. He has a yes or no decision to make. Drink. Don’t Drink. Just like that he gets up from the bar and walks over to the pool table and plays a round with his brother. At the end of the book there is a list of what happened to some of the more important characters later on in life and it is sad to see that very few continue one the safe journey to recovery. The strength needed to overcome the kind of addiction James had is unbelievable and truly amazing.

A Million Little Pieces #5

One of the more intense scenes in, A Million Little Pieces, is when Lily and James are caught together and Lily leaves the rehab center after being told they will not be able to see each other again. When James asks Lincoln where Lily is he tells him, “We know what we’re doing here. We have rules for a reason. Maybe you’ll listen a bit better from now on” (345). James is infuriated and knows that he can help Lily and wants to go after her. Hank takes James along with Lincoln on a search for Lily. When James finds out where she is, he immediately runs into the crack house to rescue her without a second thought. The entire time the question of if he will be able to withstand the powerful drug is bouncing around in your mind. When he walks in to find Lily selling her body for drugs, he orders the man out of the room and turns to Lily, “She crawls into the corner, clutching her gear. She shakes her head. We’re going to leave that shit here and we’re going home. She clutches, shakes her head, her eyes are gone, she is gone” (355). I can’t imagine the effect these drugs have on people I just know that it is something I hope I am never forced to deal with, especially with someone I love.

As James sits in the corner clutching Lily;
There is a burst of anger and fear and punching and pushing and she stops. Goes limp. I feel the pipe and bag against my chest. I feel them fall away, hear them hit the floor. I think about picking them up the urge is so f***ing strong I hold on to her. I hold on until it goes away. Hold on. (355)
This is the first instance where James fights his urges using not the rehab way but his own determination and love for Lily. He puts her ahead of him and is therefore able to get them both out of there unharmed. Although it is a miracle that he was able to resist the drug, one questions what may happen when Lily isn’t there to take his mind away.

A Million Little Pieces #4

James is very set against believing in a higher power, especially God. He has even read the bible but it just does not ring through with him. Seeing as how the AA program centers around the concept of a higher power this creates a problem. Instead of putting his belief in God, but puts it in love. In a way its odd because they are both very similar. Neither God nor love can be seen or proven to exist, you can only feel in it and trust in it. James decides to put his faith in Lily. Lily is the girl he met briefly on his first day. They begin sneaking out to the woods together at night and developing a close bond. They are both very messed up and have a certain comfort with each other knowing that this connects them. The only issue is that socialization between sexes isn’t allowed. Joanne finds out about their little meetings and confronts James, “You should be concentrating on what you’re here for, which is getting sober and rebuilding your life. Lilly is a distraction that takes you away from that. Both of you are very fragile and vulnerable right now, and if something went wrong between the two of you, it would jeopardize your sobriety” (254). Joanne is trying to keep Lily and James apart when it is the only thing that will make him better.

Shortly after leaving his meeting with Joanne, he is called back to her office and informed that his parents have enrolled in the family program. What he calls “the fury”, his uncontrollable anger, immediately flares up. He is not close with his parents and for some reason whenever they turn up, the fury gets stronger. His mother asks him to quit smoking and he replies, “I’ll give you a choice, Mom. I can either smoke cigarettes or smoke crack. You make the call. She recoils, obviously hurt. I knew it would happen, but I did it anyway” (258). Even though he doesn’t want to hurt his mom, being mean is his ultimate defense.

A Million Little Pieces #3

On Roy’s final night in the program, James decides it is time for him to give up and plans on leaving that night. He even returns the few pieces of clothing he has borrowed from others along with notes of thanks. He sits down to dinner with Leonard, the older man who just won’t seem to leave him alone, to eat his final meal. Leonard says one day James will get tired of being a jerk and talk to him and that he is going to keep sitting with him until he does but James just laughs in his face and walks away. James then sits through the lecture thinking how glad he is that it will be the last one. As he walks out the door he hears someone coming after him and turns. Its Leonard. He asks;

Where you going?
A hand on my shoulder. I push it off.
Stop for a second, Kid.
A hand on my shoulder. I push it off. Hands on both my shoulders. Stronger than I expected. They stop me and they turn me around.(105)

James finally agrees to stay for 24 more hours. The next day Leonard tells James his story and the fact that he confided in him and believes in him subconsciously convinces James to give it one more shot. When his 24 hours are up, he doesnt leave. When a people reach out so help someone, they often just give up after one denial and say they did the best they could when really, all they need is one more push in the right direction. If everyone actually tried to help each other instead of just doing what is convenient, the world could end up in a much better place. Leonard has realized this and intends to make James come to this conclusion as well.

A Million Little Pieces #2

The next section I read starts when James is moving into his room and being integrated into the general program. Everyone is assigned a chore which is called their “job” and his happens to be cleaning the bathrooms. One night James has what is called a user dream where he is doing drugs and drinking in his dream but it is almost real. He can’t get back to sleep therefore he decides he might as well get his job out of the way. The bathroom is sparkling when he finally falls back to sleep but when he wakes up, it is a disaster. Roy, a man who has been bugging him recently, is behind this mess. When he begins to yell at James and come after him about the bathroom not being clean, James beats him almost senseless. The supervisors automatically assume that he did it for no reason and was just being out of control which just makes him even angrier.

This instance doesn’t help him keep much faith into the program. The only person who sees through that is the psychiatrist, Joanne, which helps form a bond between them. This all comes back to the question of why the retaliator always gets the blame. Even though Roy started the problem, , that doesn’t make it the right choice. People are expected to fall apart when something terrible happens; it is the people who keep living their lives the same that are truly remarkable.

A Million Little Pieces #1

This quarter I chose to read the memoir, A Million Little Pieces, by James Frey. He tells the story the terrifying battle he fought against both alcoholism and heavy drug abuse. The book starts with him waking up on a plane, barely able to lift his head, with no recollection of how he wound up there or where he is headed. As he lies on the floor of the plane, he feels the urge to throw up, “I rub my stomach. I can feel it coming. Fast and strong and burning. No way to stop it, just close your eyes and let it ride. It comes and I recoil from the stench and the pain. There’s nothing I can do” (2). James knows he is out of control but that obviously is not making him want to change, he is too deep in his addiction. When he finally arrives in Chicago and is greeted by his parents who he feels a certain distance from which is obvious by their reactions to each other. As they are driving along in the car, his parents inform James that he is being admitted to a very respectable drug rehabilitation center in the Minneapolis area. He is aware that he will die soon if he doesn’t get help. Although his life is not that important to him, he does not resist which shines just a little bit of hope that he could get better. After he gets checked into the facility, he is analyzed by the doctors and begins detoxification. The extent to which James had submerged himself in these terrible substances is quite overwhelming and hard to imagine. He is an alcoholism is accompanied by the abuse of cocaine, pills, acid, mushrooms, meth, PCP, and glue (9).

The style of writing that is used really helps you get inside James’s head and understand him better. The areas talking about his feelings often use short incomplete sentences or even just one word. You can tell he wasn’t always that way and it’s shocking to see how fast one’s life can be turned upside down. When he is finally alone is his room, the realization of what he has done to his life begins to hit him, “I stand. I look around me. I don’t know anything. Where I am, why, what happened, how to escape. My name my life. I curl up on the floor and I am crushed by images and sounds” (11). I think it is impossible to completely understand until it happens to you. Even just one little mistake can reverse your entire universe

Should Homer be considered an early feminist or an old-fashioned sexist?

I consider Homer to be an early feminist because of the power he gives the goddesses. At this point in time, women didn’t really amount to anything other than staying home and running the household. Homer uses Athena and Hera to show that women could be much more. The Goddess Athena is shown as a strong character when she takes charge of Telemachus’s journey. When Telemachus is sitting at home worrying about how to deal with the suitors, Athena takes charge and plans a trip for him in search of his father, Odysseus. Another example of her being show as a powerful figure is when she changes into an eagle and flies away. Menelaus is amazed and they hold a feast in her name which shows how much they respect her. Hera is also a good example of women stepping up and being more powerful. In The Iliad, she stands up to Artemis and knocks her down when she is trying to help the Trojans. Hera also defies Zeus by going against him and helping the Achaeans. Although she knows they will eventually win, she hates seeing her beloved people dying and the fact that she goes against the king of the gods shows that she has much more a backbone then most women in those days. By using Athena and Hera Homer shows that women can be more than just the simple housewives they are expected to be.

Visual Analysis Post

The movie review I just a read was about Pirates of the Caribbean: The Curse of the Black Pearl, which is the first movie in the trilogy. The critic, Sean O’Connell, talks about how typically in Hollywood pirate movies are a no go but Pirates of the Caribbean could be the movie that changes that. He says that a big part in its success is how well it was made. With the technology available they were able to digitally turn real people into skeletons and back again which was a very intriguing aspect. Something I found interesting was that even after all that praise, the critic only gave the movie a 3.5. Its one of my favorite movies so personally I would give it a 5!


http://www.filmcritic.com/misc/emporium.nsf/reviews/Pirates-of-the-Caribbean-The-Curse-of-the-Black-Pearl

Relaxation

When i was younger and having trouble falling to sleep, my dad would always tell me to "say goodnight" to my body starting with my toes and ending with my head. He said that by the time i got to my head i would be completely relaxed and fall right to sleep but i thought it sounded ridiculous. That may sound a little funny to you too but I just read an article from the Mayo Clinic which basically says the same thing. The article talks about how even if you don't have a lot of stress in your life you can still benefit a lot from little relaxation techniques. One of the relaxation techniques was called Autogenic relaxation. In this technique you simply visualize a peaceful place and focus on either relaxing breathing, slowing your heart rate, or slowly relaxing one part of your body at a time, which is what reminded me of my dads old trick. With this relaxation tip you can gain more energy, better concentration, fewer physical and emotional responses, and overall more efficiency with your daily activities. After reading this article i am going to try and help my body relax more with these simple techiniques and i suggest trying them on yourself!

Just A Dream

"Just A Dream"

It was two weeks after the day she turned eighteen
All dressed in white
Going to the church that night
She had his box of letters in the passenger seat
Sixpence in a shoe, something borrowed, something blue
And when the church doors opened up wide
She put her veil down
Trying to hide the tears
Oh she just couldn't believe it
She heard trumpets from the military band
And the flowers fell out of her hand

Baby why'd you leave me
Why'd you have to go?
I was counting on forever, now I'll never know
I can't even breathe
It's like I'm looking from a distance
Standing in the background
Everybody's saying, he's not coming home now
This can't be happening to me
This is just a dream

The preacher man said let us bow our heads and pray
Lord please lift his soul, and heal this hurt
Then the congregation all stood up and sang the saddest song that she ever heard
Then they handed her a folded up flag
And she held on to all she had left of him
Oh, and what could have been
And then the guns rang one last shot
And it felt like a bullet in her heart

Baby why'd you leave me
Why'd you have to go?
I was counting on forever, now I'll never know
I can't even breathe
It's like I'm looking from a distance
Standing in the background
Everybody's saying, he's not coming home now
This can't be happening to me
This is just a dream

Oh,
Baby why'd you leave me
Why'd you have to go?
I was counting on forever, now I'll never know
Oh, now I'll never know
It's like I'm looking from a distance
Standing in the background
Everybody's saying, he's not coming home now
This can't be happening to me
This is just a dream

Oh, this is just a dream
Just a dream
Yeah, Yeah

I like the song "Just A Dream" by Carrie Underwood because it actually makes you feel something. The title really fits because what the character in the song goes through truly would be like a dream. I can’t even imagine what it would be like to have the person you love go to war and have their life be in danger every second let alone actually losing them. It seems like the hardest part of losing them would be not being able to say goodbye. Even though it will hurt no matter what, having some closure would probably help. I also connect with when she says they “sang the saddest song that she ever heard”. It’s interesting how a random song can affect you so much depending on how you’re feeling. I know that I have a couple songs that really get to me just because they remind me of something. I think that this is a good song and people should listen to it and try to put themselves in the other person’s shoes.

WELCOME!

Hey everyone welcome to my english blog! Throughout the year this blog will be updated atleast once a week. I will be adding reviews on things such as newspaper articles, short stories, professional essays, and lyrics and commenting on other peoples entries. You might not agree with everything i say but that is why they're called opinions. Keep checking back for more!

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